Saturday, April 25, 2009

Dead blogs

As I look back on my web 2.0 web blog, I can't help but wonder how many "dead" blogs there are out in space. Last mutterings of people now gone from this earth or who have moved on and just don't care about posting anymore. This blog, of course, is one of those. Perhaps I'll keep it as a learning blog for things I'm learning in life, work, and love.

Here's what I'm learning lately:
Love: you suspect that your spouse is interested in someone else. This, of course, makes you feel insecure. Insecurity is very unattractive which leads your spouse to be interested in someone else. So then, what do you do????

Life: If you want to be something, choose it and then become it. You're a non-smoker or a smoker. Choose which one you are and then be it. Don't flop between trying to quit and smoking - you're one or the other. Fitness - same deal - you can spend your life being a miserable person if you're a yo-yo up and down the scale. I have a friend that I saw eating a yummy looking frozen mocha drink. I made a comment that it looked wonderful, but I was betting that it had too many calories for me. Her comment back was, "I gave up on that. I'm a large person - not fat, but also not meant to be skinny. Once I realized that, life was much happier." So, decide - are you fat or fit? Decide which one you are and then become that.

Work: I'm not learning anything and it's making me miserable. At least I'm learning things in the other two areas!